SEX: THE MOTIVATION AND CONTINUUM OF LIFE by Patrick Rotcivz

You were created from the seed planted in the act of copulation. By the endowment of nature you grew, mature and copulate with your mate to create life. You live, whither and die. Through you, your creation is the continuum of life. And the cycle repeats.

Creation is an act of copulation. Copulation is the motivation for the continuum of life.

Gender Attraction

Copulation can only begin when the opposite genders are attracted to one another. Gender attraction is the manifestation of the primal instinct to have sexual intercourse. This is a fact of life.

An Act of Copulation
Men are attracted to women, and women are attracted to men. The male-female gender attraction is nature’s equation of life.

Attraction to the opposite gender is a natural biological phenomenon built into the system of our bodies for the sole purpose of propagation of the species. Sexual desire is the primal and instinctive urge that attracts the opposite genders together for the innate agenda to copulate. Nature endows the feelings of transcendental ecstasy and fulfilment during the act of copulation. Such is the motivation for the continuum of life.

To restate the direct and simple truth: A man and a woman are attracted to each other because of the innate and primal desire and instinct to have sexual intercourse. Accept, shy away from this truth or deny this fact of life – it is a very real situation in our daily lives. No living person can deny that they are not attracted to the opposite sex and have this innate agenda to have sexual intercourse. Only by the freak of nature will this natural phenomenon be distorted to cause the attraction of the same gender, but this is not the subject that this article will dwell upon.

The innate desire to have sexual intercourse attracts men and women to each other. Whether a man or a woman, stimulated by the primal sexual desire, achieves to have consensual sexual intercourse is another question.

Truth is simple yet life is complex about the truth.

Ancient Sexual Meditation
Social norm

Animals just sense it, know it and start to copulate with its opposite gender. It is truly an expression of innate freedom to act upon primal impulse.

Distinctive from the lower animals, human sexual behaviour is more delicate due to the complexity and sophistication of the highly evolved human mind.

Consciously or unconsciously, deep within our innate being we are responsive to our primal urge to copulate. Yet, the conditioning that sets the blueprint of our mindset prohibits us from being direct and honest about our innate instinct to copulate. Social and societal norms and the need for security have deep rooted influence on human sexual behaviour. We hide behind the veil of our social upbringing, ethics and code of conduct, knowingly or unknowingly.

The innate desire to copulate comes in many guises in our social behavioural pattern living in the social milieu. We call it: love, attraction, infatuation, trust, desire, feelings, security and numerous other expressions of the innate desire. The modus operandi to achieve this ultimate primal desire to copulate comes in many subtle forms of social interaction. Dates, outings, movies, dinners, parties, dances, love letter writing, internet chats are examples of the diverse methodology of gender interaction and such interaction are indeed enjoyable social and sensual experiences. It reflects the need to conform to the restrictive societal norms and the need for security.

Societal and social norm imposes restriction on the human interactive behaviour and relationship. Behavioural and relationship restrictions are imposed in religious and moral codes, societal, cultural and fidelity attributes including folklore, taboos and superstitions. These societal norms are established in the human society to ensure control and order in conformity with the accepted social norm of the society.

In the broad perspective, societal and social norms, to an extent have elements of that are restrictive and discriminating and suppresses against the expression of innate freedom of the individual to act unreservedly upon primal sexual impulse.

Sensual
The need for security has always been the innate human desire for survival for self-preservation since time immemorial. The security factor is addressed through cultivating and developing gender interaction. As love and trust is nurtured and established, the barrier is opened. The individuals are no longer constraint to express his or her innate desires through consensual sexual intercourse.

An extension of the security factor may sometimes include material wealth as a factor that opens the restrictive doors for individuals to consummate the act of consensual copulation. This is an exception but not the rule depending on the values and circumstances of the individuals concerned.

In the complexity and tribulation of life, the sexual behaviour of men and women are consciously or unconsciously motivated by their primal and innate instincts. Sexual intercourse is always the end result. Creation is the fruit of copulation for the continuum of life.